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RACK Room is a BDSM/kink dungeon and not a swinger's venue! Do not come looking for a swinger hookup because you will be sorely disappointed at the lack of sweaty bodies throwing themselves at you.
Consent and Consent Culture
We work from "only yes means yes", "the absence of a no is not yes" and "enthusiastic, ongoing consent". If you are unaccustomed to negotiating play, volunteers are available to observe or assist with asking questions and learning what information to offer to a prospective play partner.
Enthusiastic Consent Article
How Consent is Like a Cup of Tea (Yes, you are expected to watch this and tell us how it relates to consent.)
Consent is the difference between a war crime and a good time. RACK stands for: Risk Awareness Consensual Kink. All play, physical contact (including non-sexual contact) and touching other people’s stuff can only be done with the clear and enthusiastic consent of the other person.
Safe words are personal, but light-up toys at the reception desk can serve as emergency signals for those unable to verbalize or hear.
Inform staff in advance if engaging in play without a safe word, especially for consensual non-consent (CNC) or resistance play.
Take staff interruptions seriously, particularly if concerning furniture damage, risky impact, or potentially dangerous activities.
Respect staff interventions; they work hard to maintain a safe, clean, and enjoyable environment.
The dungeon supports individuals exercising their legal right to self-defense in response to assaults on their person. No permission is needed to use any means of self-defense deemed appropriate, gratifying, or entertaining.
Standard Dungeon Etiquette
Ms Morgan Thorne's videos are solid gold for beginners as well as for more experienced players. You can also search "BDSM play party etiquette" and see very similar rules put together by various groups/venues.
This comic-format page goes into what play parties can be like if you have some social anxiety and need a bit more preparation.
1) Do not interrupt someone while they are in a scene! If you have a question, wait till they are finished with both the scene and aftercare. If you see something that concerns you, let a volunteer know. Maintain a safe distance from scenes so you don't get whacked in the face by a stray flogger or whip.
2) Clean the equipment when you are finished with your scene. You wouldn't want to use something with someone's fluids on it, would you?
3) If you spill it, clean it up! If you drip it, clean it up! If you use it, wipe it down!
4) No is a complete sentence. If someone tells you NO and you don't move on, you can and will be expelled for a consent violation.
5) Respect Identification: Always use the names individuals provide and respect their chosen roles without assumption, including gender. This ensures a welcoming environment where everyone feels acknowledged and respected for their individuality. This is a safe place for all people! Respect other's pronouns and gender identities. If you are unsure, use the neutral "they" or ask.
6) Personal Boundaries: Submissives, slaves, and dominants are not communal property; consent is paramount. Each person's boundaries and autonomy must be respected, and no one should be treated as an object or belonging of the community.
7) Consent for Touch: Obtain explicit permission before touching anyone or their belongings, including collars and toys. Respecting personal space and property ownership fosters trust and ensures that interactions are consensual and respectful. If you did not bring it with you and you have not been given permission, DO NOT TOUCH IT! This goes for toys, submissives, and personal items. Especially Ms Saskia's toys. There will be great vengeance wrought upon those who touch her things without permission.
9) For the safety of everyone, keep your phone or any equipment capable of recording either audio or video out of the play areas. If you'd like pictures of your scene ask staff to help you make sure no one else is in the shot.
10) What happens in the dungeon stays in the dungeon. Don't out someone in a vanilla space and don't talk about dungeon goings-on outside of the dungeon. Don't give out the address or check in on social media or bring anyone who hasn't been vetted. See our Guest Policy.
RACK Room Specific Rules
This short virtual tour will give you a better idea of the venue and prepare you for the screening call.
1) No hate speech! -Isms will not be tolerated, this is a safe space for all.
2) Be respectful and courteous at all times. Consent violations will result in expulsion and blacklisting. Fuck around and find out is not a saying here, it is a promise.
3) If you see something, let us know! We can only help when we know what is going on.
4) Keep the clinic door open. If you are doing a scene that requires minimal distractions to be safe, let us know and we will help you find a place.
5) Cover up before entering the kitchen area. Cover your bits around the food!
6) If you plan on doing fire, wax, blood or other messy play, bring tarps and clean up supplies. You must check in with staff when you arrive so they are aware and can show you where to play.
7) No naked butts on the furniture! The couches are important aftercare and relaxation areas. Cover your butt before you sit down!
8) One person at a time on the suspension table. It's handmade and a work of art, and many tears will be shed if it breaks.
9) Saskia's office is considered Narnia. Only if you enter you won't find a satyr and a lamppost but a very pissed off dungeon owner.
10) Firearms are not allowed. Period. I can't believe I have to say this, but evidently I do.
11) Alcohol is not allowed at events. We are a dry club. Drier than the Mojave desert.
12) Watersports must be done in the shower. Let us know so we can let you know how long to disinfect the space afterward.
13) Fire and fire-adjacent play is only allowed in the warehouse where we keep our fire extinguishers.
14) Use surfaces as intended; don't sit on things that aren't meant to be sat on.
15) RACK Room is a sex-positive space. Condoms (male and female) and lube are provided for your use.
Failure to adhere to the above rules and standards will result in you being bounced out and banned.
We will call your mom if we have to. Don't make us call your mom. We will tattle on you and then seduce her and make out with her in front of you on your birthday. She'll post pictures of us together on her Facebook page and tag you in them, and she'll be wearing a collar with a tag that reads, "Saskia's Bitch." We'll have our own Instagram page. Don't think we won't. Nobody is completely hetero (or homo) after their third martini. True fact.
(updated 5/20/24)